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Subject: Re:Having a fantasy about work colleague

Date: Sat 22/02/20 00:39:26 GMT

Name: AnthonyX

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What happens in the privacy of your own thoughts is nobody else's concern, unless you wish to make it so. It's not morally wrong to have lustful thoughts about anyone including co-workers, but it could make for awkward workplace interactions.

No you're not alone in this at all. I've fantasized over many women I've encountered in the various offices I have worked. I just put those thoughts aside when I have to work with them, and in at least a few cases, I've approached them to date (and almost always been shot down, but gotten a few dates). It doesn't have to impact work interactions and you can still develop friendships, and there's always the possibility of something developing out of a friendship.

The only caveats

o Be mindful of doing things that might creep out the target of your affections.

o Be mindful of your company's policies on dating co-workers; some don't care, some advise caution or place limits (conflicts of interest/position of power issues), some have outright bans.

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Having a fantasy about work colleague

By Skelenton - Thu 20/02/20 22:12:28 GMT

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A girl/young woman has started working at my place of employment. I spoke to her today, she's really nice. To be truthful, I can't ever recall speaking to somebody so attractive in all my life.

But the truth is I keep fantasizing about her, imagining her in my ultimate wetlook scenario (where she's wearing boots or wellies, and she has to swim wearing them). I wouldn't be surprised if I have a dream about her tonight.

I'm never going to tell her this, of course, it's just all in my imagination.

My question is this: Is it morally wrong to have fantasies like this? Or, is it acceptable as long as I just keep it in my mind and never mention it to her or nybody else?

Also, am I alone in having thoughts like this?

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