Wetlook World Forum

Reckonerr is right... at best, you might get 10:1 male:female, but I think it will probably be closer to 40:1.

I built a wetlook dating site years ago. That's about the statistics I got. Surprisingly, it did result in one connection.

On most conventional dating sites (match.com, lavalife, etc.), the men outnumber the women. I think the stats are around 2:1 to 4:1, depending on the site. That's where every effort is made to be as inclusive to women as possible in a "conventional" social context. The only site that really gets better balance is eHarmony - because they designed their site to put up as many barriers as possible to typical predatory male behavior (which inevitable surfaces on most sites) and make it more female-friendly. Anyway, no matter how female-friendly you try to make your site, the world of WAM on the internet is overwhelmingly male. It's not because WAM is an overwhelmingly male interest... I believe a lot of women are into it; they just won't use the internet as a resource to satisfy their interests... they don't have to. The forum is a good indicator of female participation in internet WAM... about 1 in 20 to 1 in 50.

My opinion remains as follows: use conventional means to find a relationship... if you want a woman to participate in WAM with you, look for someone who describes herself as "open-minded" and/or "open to new experiences". The best way to introduce your festish is GENTLY; ideally, leave it to a conversation in which she asks you what turns you on.

I wish you the best of luck with your site, and I hope you'll prove me wrong - I'd look forward to it, so let me know how it goes.