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Subject: Re:somewhat OT: when to tell your partner about your fetish?

Date: Sat 28/04/12 19:02:28 GMT

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Due to my experience, it is not the best to tell it your partner too early. One should wait a little bit until one managed to established a proper sexual relationship. And then one can introduce it SLOWLY! Everyone has some kinky ideas, so does your partner. One can explore each other fantasies together ... it is a little bit like give and take ... and by time one really enjoys it. One should see a fetish as a kind of sexual game. It is always good to ask for your partners wishes first and then make suggestions by your own. Be honest, but do not drop the whole bomb at once, this might frighten your partner off.

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somewhat OT: when to tell your partner about your fetish?

By Jessica - friends@fantasystockings.com Sat 28/04/12 00:13:37 GMT

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I encountered so many people through my hosiery blog who told me how their spouse doesn't share their interest and even sometimes protests by not doing to the extreme of what the other partner desires. Where is the source here? Could it be that the partner is upset that this sexual desire was not introduced to them upfront?

I consulted a sexual health educator on this topic. She believes that it's best to tell the partner right away. I think you may find this article interesting if you are not married and dating.

When to tell your partner about your fetish? (has hosiery fetish in mind, but applies to any fetishistic fun)

http://fantasystockings.com/?p=1032

Please, if you don't mind, check out her website too. I'd like her to see some traffic, since if she doesn't, I suppose it won't make much sense to her to answer further questions. I'd love to ask her something wetlook-related in the future.

Jessica

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