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Subject: Re: Feedback to below posts: Wetwhite and Blue

Date: Tue 31/07/07 00:53:26 GMT

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Heh

Well first of all, I share the same problem many self employed do. No Yen too.

I have to say my wife and our marriage have many good qualities. My wife is there all the time, but my biggest issue is she is alwasy up tight about something. But that is her way. She's always there, caring, all the qualities you asked if she was. That is why I Love her so much. But like many relationships, we are opposites in many ways. The fettish is an example. She has a couple too, but they are no where near sexual related. I am sure I have things that drives her crazy too.

I already decided to meet her half way. . . In the 19 years I have known her, (BTW we are both retreads) I still don't know all her buttons. She is really quite sufisticated in her own way. But she is what I like and want.

After I posted this, she and I were sitting. She mentioned wanting to go down some rapids. I looked up where we were going and found a few places which were remote, but possible to do what she wants too. Since she doesn't own a paithing suit. . . . Well maybe. . . . . She also mentioned something about a water fall. MMMMM That may be interesting.

I want to thank everyone for their wisdom and input. This has been a quandry for a long time now. The biggest thing for me is the jeans. I guess if I can get her into those, the rest will follow. I guess I could at least talk her into trying on the pair I bought her. . . .

Thanks :)

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Re: Feedback to below posts: wet prude = sex prude?

By wetwhiteandblue - Tue 31/07/07 00:34:20 GMT

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If you were to take wetlook out of the equation, how is your wife otherwise? Is she loving? Caring? Kind? Great in the kitchen? Good mother? Is she there when you need her? Is she a good listener? Are YOU a good listener? Is there compromise between you and her? Is she supportive? Is communication a main force in your marriage? I could go on and on. You get the picture where I'm going.

If you're centering your marriage around your fetish of "wetlook", then you are the problem in the marriage, not her! The chances of finding a mate who is willing to go along with your wetlook fetish is about slim to none. In reality it's a fantasy. If you noticed the few websites featured in this forum that involves married couples interested in wetlook, you could probably count them on one hand. Consider this: Wetlook is mostly a man's fetish, not a woman's. Can you name me one wetlook forum anywhere where the majority of contributors are female talking male wetlook? Realistically, it's male seeing wet women or male seeking male wetlook.

I suggest keeping your fetish confined to yourself and focusing on the other good qualilties your wife has to offer. For you to be married for over 20 years, there has to be some positive element for your marital longitivity, otherwise you two would have been seperated long ago.

Enjoy your fetish my friend, but love your wife! You're luckier that most.

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Feedback to below posts: wet prude = sex prude?

By Wet Guy - Mon 30/07/07 23:56:26 GMT

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Guys - I've been married over 20 years. My experience has been that my wife thinks wet look is some kind of wierd thing and therefore does not do it unless I force it on her (in a nice way ... not some kind of abuse). The same is true for any kind of fun fetish sex play - stockings, sexy lingerie, etc. For her, nude in the missionary position is as good as it gets, and that once a week if I am lucky.

I have such a bigger sex drive than her. My guess is that the same ladies who turn up their nose at getting wet turn up their nose and make you feel like a preditory fool for other types of very benign fetishes. I have been disappointed my whole life with this important aspect of my marriage, and I am about to throw in the towel.

Would you guys agree with me? Some women just love sex and play and most forms of playful fetishes, and the others turn off to anything other than the basics. that's my experience.

To you younger guys or anyone that is not married, I would never go into it again (marriage that is) without knowing my future wife's feelings and reactions to these. If she's a prude, let it go. You will be miserable forever, and just satisfying yourself on the net. Sad but true.

Wet Guy

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