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Message # 61732.14.1 Subject: the experienceproject? Date: Tue 08/07/14 15:17:08 GMT Name: ncgreg231 |
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Ah yes, the experience project, one thing I like about that website is that the commentaries are much more long term (unlike this otherwise great forum in which the postings can "disappear" into oblivion over time?) and I have to ask if anyone is saving all of this great discussion for future reference as well as continuation? I dare say that this is not a new topic anyway, just the current revisitation, although I recognize many of the posting names from over the years (another great topic is the progression of the "community" from the time before the internet, and great websites that have come and gone, as well as some of the models as well... Kirsta Bruenig and Rob Blaine, to mention the first two names that came to my mind...)
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In reply to Message (61732.14) Re:What causes the WAM fetish?
By WetinKS - Tue 08/07/14 14:14:41 GMT Wouldn't it be great if we could somehow coordinate a community-wide study into the wetlook phenomenon? Although, as many factors and as much variation between us as there obviously is, maybe nothing could ever be found... I'd have to lean toward the anchoring idea, though I think I have a couple possible anchors. One is a Sesame Street clip, in which a group of kids run out of a forest and jump into a creek, fully clothed. Never did figure out the reason they filmed that. In any case, I long wished I could do the same. As for my parents, while I never saw much in the way of PDA beyond a simple kiss, I can't say they were repressive in any way. And I think that getting wet in the creek near our house would only have dismayed Mom as much as stepping in a cowpie did (she simply handed us a knife for scraping once the goop was dry). So I'm not sure the 'forbidden' aspect was ever as important for me as the feeling. Writing this, I'm thinking of starting a new poll over in experienceproject.com, to find out more of people's first experiences versus the first exciting experiences. For me, I remember keeping my shirt on when swimming on a sunny day -- but I didn't really feel anything more than surprise that Grandma had me do that. Much later, I specifically wanted to know what it was like to swim with a shirt on, the way practicing divers do -- so I actually wore a collared shirt in a school pool... with absolutely no complaint from the lifeguard. And the rest was history. |
In reply to Message (61732) What causes the WAM fetish?
By RoscoeBC - Sun 06/07/14 08:10:14 GMT I'm still trying to figure out the reason a woman in wet clothes turns me on more than a naked one. I've been that way as long as I can remember, as a boy I liked a picture of a girl in a wet short skirt and a wet blouse going sheer a lot more than the center spread of a Penthouse with everything on display. I'm trying to get my wife to understand. It seems she would be more comfortable if I wanted her to just strip naked.
I can think of four things that may be factors in my childhood. Do these sound familiar to anyone?
First, my dad seemed to be pretty hung up about sex. Never got romantic with mom in front of the kids. If there weren't two kids around for proof, I never would have believed they got it on. It was never discussed. I get the feeling that I got the message that girls getting naked, or me looking at them, was bad. Good people didn't do that. But a girl getting wet, with her clothes going clingy and sheer was great. She didn't get naked.
Second factor. Not bragging, just throwing it out there. I've got an unusually high IQ. I belong to Mensa. I have to wonder if brighter people have more fetishes. Maybe it's the mind getting creative to stave off boredom?
Third. Maybe my earliest memory (really, really early) is of my mom plopping my sister and I in the tub to give us a bath. I specifically remember that I had a shirt on in the water and found something curious about that. I suspect my mom thought a boy and a girl shouldn't be naked in the tub together. I wonder if the act of soaping me up and rinsing me was arousing, and the association stuck. I like getting myself wet almost as much as getting a girl wet.
Fourth, maybe I just like to have a little challenge, have to work for it a little, have a little left to wonder about. But the urge seems too strong to just be that.
Am I ringing any bells with anyone?
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