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Message # 16963.3.1 Subject: Re: Re: addiction Date: Tue 05/07/05 03:01:55 GMT Name: waterman |
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Second all your opinions here.
Obsession is when things are out of balance, and keeping that balance is a necessity for a successful and satisfying life. It is an error to believe that as much as possible of a fetish might keep you really happy. With the experience of many years with this fetish and inside the internet with all those great sites (in my beginning there was only Rob Blaines Messy Fun) I had really hot and addictive times and others where things cooled down. A vacation of two weeks without internet can be very positive for getting back into balance. And it regenerates your powers for enhanced sensitive arousal and real satisfaction. To get the most of all of it will quickly become boring. Today its easy for me to manage my inclination to this fetish. I take a look at this forum or other wetlook (and messy) internet sites whenever I like, but I don't feel it as a must do. It has proven to be the best way for fulfilling feelings out of all.
So, make your day, but do it in balance.
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In reply to Message (16963.3) Re: addiction
By Victor - Mon 04/07/05 23:25:18 GMT I feel about the same. Sometimes when I have to do some work or it is time for me to go to bed I can't stop myself from visiting this forum and if there is nothing to my liking here I begin surfing the net. On the one hand it is not so bad as it is, but what worries me is that sometimes it is beyond my control. But if I'm disconnected from the internet or if I travel somewhere where there's no internet it's O.K. I see that I can do without wetlook at least for a while. So I think it is best to find a gold middle to have your interest satisfied and not to become obsessed by it. |
In reply to Message (16963) addiction
By wetimer - isthisobscureenough@yahoo.co.uk Mon 04/07/05 15:56:48 GMT I have seen a few discussions on this forum about whether we are addicted to this activity of checking the forum, and obsessively looking at loads and loads of wet girls. I have wondered on a few occasions whether my own behaviour with relation to wetlook is becoming unhealthy. Well, I have recently had abstinence forced upon me through the unfortunate experience of being disconnected to the web for about a month, due to technical difficulties. I thought you might like to know how I reacted.
Initially, I was incredibally frustrated, to the point of anger. After a day or two, I calmed down. I noticed that I was definately becoming less sexually aroused at every moment. Embarrasing as this may be to admit, but the frequency with which I masturbated went down. Not a lot, but enough for me to notice. As far as experiencing wetlook firsthand, well, that also diminished, probably to the level of frequency I had before I had the web ie about once or twice a week, rather than about every other day.
Mentally, I noticed that I stopped looking for another chance to log on the whole time.
Overall, I think it was a positive expereince.
However, I definately missed the chance to see our version of porn, ie beautiful and beautifully dressed girls dripping or submerged. I also definately missed the contact with other like-minded people.
I think I have learnt that there is a level of balance that I need to strike. And most importantly is this:
I can be part of the wetlook community and a fulfilled person, without necassarily checking EVERY message that gets posted onto EVERY forum!
I'd be interested in any thoughts that the rest of you have on keeping a balance.
Wetimer
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