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Subject: Re: Why leave?

Date: Sat 17/01/04 04:07:12 GMT

Name: AnthonyX

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I should think that there are a number of ways/reasons people "disappear" from the wetlook "community"...

If their reason for joining was to address their concern that they are not alone, there may be no need to remain involved once they have gained the reassurance they sought.

In the case of women who share pictures of themselves, the unpleasantness of being recognized in real life can drive them into disappearing (as has happened numerous times).

Unattached people (male or female) may be using the community to satisfy a need until such time as they find a real-life companion to meet those needs.

There have been (and probably always will be) incidents where someone gets sufficiently offended by remarks from others in the community that they leave in digust.

Wetlook was never more than a curiosity or an area of experimentation; once the exploration is finished, they move on to something else.

I'm sure there are other reasons, but I think that for the most part, they don't reflect a loss of a long-standing interest in wetlook.

I think that fetishes are relatively stable aspects of personality and behaviour which would require a serious effort and a lot of conditioning to change. Not a good thing for anyone into something truly destructive or harmful.

Disappearing from here, or closing a web site should not imply that a person's fetish has waned... only their interest in expressing it within the web community.

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People do leave the wetlook community

By Chester - sgroi@spamcop.net Wed 14/01/04 18:18:10 GMT

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I have noticed over the years of lurking that people appear online in the wetlook community, sometimes make great contributions in both photh and discussion, then later suddenly disapear (sometimes rather abruptly) without any reason given.

So there are those that *DO* turn their backs on the wetlook community and I have often wondered why and how they are able to do it. Still, I guess this does not answer the question of whether they still participate in wetlook privately and alone.

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Re: Re: Why do YOU do wetlook?

By bryce - brycepunk1@earthlink.net Wed 14/01/04 16:42:24 GMT

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Hmm... stopping wetlook. Or my participating in it. Honestly, I don't think it's something that can neccisarily be "left." For me, anyway, it is innate. It's be like trying to make a heterosexual turn gay. I was born with this.

Of course, I could stop performing wetlook, and stop looking at it. I've had many times in life where I couldn't get wet, and pics didn't exist... but I still thought of it all the time. To this day, when having perfectly normal sex, I am still thinking of fetish-stuff, be it wetlook, mud, clothes....

I do remember back when I was 19 or so I tried for about six months to not think about it at all (in hopes of feeling less alien and less depressed because of this). I'd block every thought as soon as they popped up, try like hell to find porno arousing.... I found that after six months I felt like I was lying to myself, like I lost who I was. I felt even more miserable for hating who I was. And when I decided to stop fooling myself I was back into wetlook and other fetishes in about a day (like when I broke my right arm and couldn't write for six weeks and feared I'd forget how to write... and was able to within three minutes of getting that cast off.)

Honestly, with this community being as friendly as it is, and the reprocussions of the fetish being so realistically and utterly minimal (maybe wrecked clothing costs)... I don't see too many negatives. Sure, it sucks because finding a partner can be rough. But the folks who like to shit in each other's mouths must really have it tough when it comes to picking up chicks at the pub. How do you break that fetish to your friends? Getting wet? C'mon. That's easy. :)

Any other thoughts? I love these discussions.

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Re: Why do YOU do wetlook?

By Tobewetornottobethatisthequestion - Wed 14/01/04 13:08:55 GMT

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Very interesting article, but the overall question that it leaves me with is whether one should stop wetlook?, since it seems to carry many negatives. How many of us could simply turn our backs to the wetlook community to never view it again?, if someone can give me a good reason to stop wetlook, which I thoroughly have enjoyed since early childhood, then I will.

This is serious so please give good comments.

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Why do YOU do wetlook?

By Dr Damp - Wed 14/01/04 01:55:07 GMT

Website: http://www2.rz.hu-berlin.de/sexology/GESUND/ARCHIV/P_WETLOOK.HTM

Have any of you seen or read this interesting article? I'm not sure if I agree with everything this chap says, but it's interesting nonetheless. I certainly don't agree that depression or attention defecit disorder fuels my liking for wetlook. But hey, everyone is entitled to an opinion. Keeps the debate going if nothing else!

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