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Subject: Re:Update from my life. On and off topic. HELP!

Date: Tue 17/09/19 08:42:56 GMT

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Sorry to hear about your folks. It happened to me too, its a pain that never really goes away but slowly gets more bearable. Hang in there.

Personally I've been in a position where a partner wouldn't entertain any part of my fetish, but it was symptomatic of a bigger problem: She wouldn't put herself out in any way at all, whereas I bent over backwards to try and make her happy and meet a plethora of demands. I figured that being with a wetlook guy was a pretty high price to pay (she used to call me a "pervert" which didn't help) and tried to offset that by putting a lot of effort in, day in, day out. But she was a "taker" and all I did when I tried to make her happy was raise her expectations. The more I put in to the relationship the more she expected and the less she put in. And it wasn't that she faced pressure to satisfy my craving, because she didn't. She wouldn't even entertain it on a special occasion, like a birthday. Reasonable people go to some effort to make their partner happy and meet halfway, selfish people don't even see why they should. In my case moving on was the best thing I could have done. It seemed like a huge risk at the time, but I left that old relationship 11 years ago. Now my "forever" partner and I have my kind of fun once every month or two. Most importantly she is the kindest, most patient and even-tempered woman I have ever met. I used to think that hissy-fits and histrionics were the price to be paid for living with a woman. Now I know differently.

The death of a parent can precipitate a re-evaluation of your life and give you a bit of a nudge. Let it.

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Update from my life. On and off topic. HELP!

By Desert Hawk - Mon 16/09/19 21:16:19 GMT

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I haven't posted in a long time because so much has been going on. My mother died. She had a stroke last New Year's Eve. It left her paralyzed on her right side. Before the stroke she was in excellent health for a 91 year old, even still driving. She spent the whole month of January in the hospital or nursing home. On February 1 she came home on hospice. I had to take 12 weeks off work for her. On March 9 she suddenly went nonresponsive. She went back to the hospital. A major urinary tract infection caused her to barely breathe. She was in the hospital until she died on April 12. My dad had already died on September 20, 2017. The woman I know from Las Vegas came to Bakersfield to be with me in late March and is still here. I am so glad she is here. Unfortunately she does not want to stay here permanently. So if I want to keep her I have to move to Las Vegas. I plan to do that early next year. I have lived here my whole life (I turn 50 tomorrow). I have so much junk to pack up and move 300 miles.

All is not perfect with our relationship, though. Back on topic. SHE HATES WETLOOK! She has gotten wet for me in the past, but won't now. She thinks she can cure me of this "retarded stupid fetish" (her words). She wouldn't let me go to Magic Mountain / Hurricane Harbor this year because she doesn't want me seeing other wet women (she is also afraid that I would secretly meet the golddigger from Glendale there). I have to sneak around to look at this foum. In fact she doesn't want me to even look at other women at all. She gets paranoid if another woman enters my field of view. She has had fits if she thinks I briefly looked at another woman. his jealousy has put a strain on our relationship. She has threatened to leave me and go back to Las Vegas I have never been all alone in the world and am terrified at the prospect of it happening now!

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