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Message # 76489.5 Subject: Re:Wetlook guy, non wetlook wife Date: Thu 14/03/19 16:34:25 GMT Name: Aristos Website: https://maxiaristos.wordpress.com/ / maxiaristos.wordpress.com |
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In my experience, you can’t disconnect the wetlook fetish from other aspects of your partner‘s personality. Being generally open and curious to many aspects of life will also encompass openness in sexual life. And this is a requirement for accepting, maybe even having fun with, but at least cater to the nonusual parts of sexuality such as WAM. This personality structure has always been an essential requirement for me in relationships, and, maybe as a result of this, I never had problems with getting my partner to WAM with me. Of course it shouldn’t be a one-way Street. I learned that my partner has kinks too, and it is great fun to explore your specific paraphilias together. I think the exposure to all sorts of porn raises the openmindedness towards fetishes in young people too.
Saying that, I wouldn’t want a partner that doesn’t cater to my WAM needs. Not only because it is an essential part of my sexuality, but also because I wouldn’t presumably be happy with other aspects of her personality too. Well, when I split up with my former wife (not related to wetlook), I was happy to stay alone because I considered it unlikely to find a perfect partner in all essential aspects (and this includes WAM of course). Four months later I stumbled over Maxi... some of you may know her. |
In reply to Message (76489) Wetlook guy, non wetlook wife
By RoscoeBC - Thu 14/03/19 05:51:34 GMT I don't think anyone has ever quite posed this question. If you've got a wetlook fetish, is there any point trying to have a long term relationship with a woman that doesn't want to partake in wetlook, either because she likes it or because she wants to please you? The wife and I just split up after 21 years. I know in my mind it was partly because I wanted wetlook, and if she complied occasionally, it was begrudgingly and with as little effort on her part as possible, not much fun. I really grew to resent the fact that she couldn't do something so simple and harmless just to please her husband. Heaven knows I did enough to please her. If she couldn't do something so simple because it really excited me, why did she get into this relationship, just the money?
Has anyone here had a successful long term relationship with a woman who can't at least enjoy partaking because you enjoy it? I dated a few women that could have fun with it. I think I should have married one of them. Of course once they were married, things may have changed. I'm pursuing a woman now that absolutely leaves me speechless, but if she can't enjoy it, should I bail and look for another?
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