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Subject: Re:Raising children around wetlook

Date: Mon 10/10/16 03:39:59 GMT

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I'll chime in here... When I met my now husband nearly 20 years ago, two of his children lived at home in their mid teens. We didn't make a big fuss about it. We simply jumped in the pool to rinse off / cool off after working outdoors... why change your going to wash anyway. Out on the boat... "Its hot, lets swim, Oh well no suit, no problem. "Horseplay" around the pool.... somebody or everybody was getting wet!

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Raising children around wetlook

By Swim.In.Clothes - swim.in.clothes@outlook.com Sun 09/10/16 21:44:09 GMT

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Hello all,

Looking for some honest opinions. We're raising our first kids - two year old twin boys - and I'm always wondering if my partaking in getting soaked around them is inappropriate in any way. I've questioned it enough in my mind that I even went to see a sex therapist who deals in sex addiction and the likes. She told me that because my desire to get wet is sexually oriented, it's not appropriate for me to be swimming clothed around my kids, and that I should wait until they're in bed or down for a nap. The problem I have with that is we have a swimming pool in the back yard and during the warm months, we swim nearly every day. I don't feel like I can abstain during any swimming at all - it does feel like an addiction that I can't break, so I feel like I must swim clothed no matter what. Is it inappropriate? I do know better than to do anything sexually in front of the kids (sex with the wife, relieving myself, etc). Is it inappropriate because I'm going to be automatically aroused by swimming clothed? I feel so torn - I always want to do what's right for my kids, and I do feel a bit self-centered by saying I "have" to be clothed in the pool.

What would you do?

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