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Subject: Re:What causes the WAM fetish?

Date: Thu 10/07/14 17:30:51 GMT

Name: JustAnotherGuy

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Sex has never been and still isn't a primary focus. Wetlook is something that is both a turn-on and something I can enjoy without getting turned on at all. It depends on the circumstances. My last ex (the only one who's been willing to get her clothes wet for me) got it stuck in her head that wetlook is only a sexual act, and thus the only reason she did it was to keep me happy (considering I get turned on without wetlook and she knew this, wetlook was very rare from her). Don't get me wrong...I enjoy sex a lot. It's just that it's not generally a goal for me. I'd much prefer the wetlook. I've also found that since I did have sex, now I'm much more interested in nudity and the idea of having sex with the women I see. But still, I'd much rather just see them wet.

I do the same with women I see in public sometimes, imagining them jumping into the fountain behind them, splashing on the beach, etc in the clothes they are wearing. Unfortunately, the type of clothes I'm most interested in, formalwear, is the type least often worn for wet activities, and is also pretty difficult to find online too. Wetlook producers tend to focus more on the sexy, almost slutty style of dresses, and a lot of times, the model doesn't actually look like she's going to a formal event. She's just put on the dress and sometimes heels, but her hair, makeup, jewelry, and other accessories are often not there. The same with the Trash the Dress trend, also these often have the woman get her hair and makeup done before the shoot. I just wish they'd keep the heels on and not take their hair down before getting in the water.

With my ex, I did a bad job explaining wetlook to her at first, and so to her, it was a huge ordeal, choosing the clothes she'd wear, doing her hair and makeup, etc. My preferences are different in reality than with models. With models, I prefer them to look like they went to a lot of effort to look amazing. With her, I wanted it to be spontaneous, hopping in the shower after a date or playing on the beach. I knew that getting all dressed up just to get wet was an annoyance to her. I just wanted her to get wet in whatever she was wearing at the time, but no matter how I tried explaining that to her, she never changed her view of what she thought I wanted, and that ended up completely souring her against wetlook. So...for future girlfriends, I have to be much more careful of how I explain it to them.

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Re:What causes the WAM fetish?

By justauser - justauser2001-1@yahoo.com Sun 06/07/14 19:19:23 GMT

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Don´t worry, I was 32!

And, until then, sex wasn´t really mine.

Changed quite some, but still the girl itself is of primary concern, the person behind the sexual attraction.

Interest in girls started much earlier, but girls wearing somewhat provocative outfits got attractive around my 30s.

Maybe I found out that girls wearing provocative or even kinky stuff are much more interesting, much more free inside.

About your "woman in red":

Everytime I see a girl dressed in something I like, I imagine her getting wet, either on purpose or giving in and being not taken back by it.

As said, then this girl would be very interesting, as she has a side which differs from the norm.

I myself like getting wet too, pretty much for just doing it.

Christening new items, especially footwear, is my favourite.

I just lack a girl who attends!

Problem is, I tasted blood, as my former 2.5 girlfriends did already.

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Re:What causes the WAM fetish?

By JustAnotherGuy - Sun 06/07/14 18:45:14 GMT

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My parents were pretty reluctant to talk about sex or do anything more than a quick kiss in our view. I think that, with my dad being a registered sex offender, this also had a HUGE influence on my aversion to sex (I'm almost thirty and did it for the first time last year....shocking, I know). I just never had any interest in sex, and, to be honest, I actively avoided it. I've never been interested in porn. When I had access to Playboy magazines, I cared more about the model's hair, heels, and lingerie than in her body.

My introduction to wetlook wasn't actually wetlook at all. I was at the local pool one day when I was nine or ten, swimming with my siblings and some friends, when this stunningly beautiful woman parked her car in the lot and got out wearing a red satin evening gown, long red satin gloves, and heels, hair done fancy, jewelry, makeup...the whole deal. The pool was fenced in, and you had to go inside a building to pay your $1.50 or whatever it the fee was before going through the shower/locker rooms and into the pool area. This formally-dressed woman walked along the fence and I was so surprised to see a woman at the pool dressed like that, even if she was still outside the fence. She entered the building and...I never saw her again. I don't know why she was there. Maybe she was a lifeguard who stopped to show her friends how she looked before she headed off to a wedding or other formal event. I know women do that in other occupations. My sister, for example, stopped at Target to show off to her coworkers before going to her prom.

But the fact that I never saw this woman again left a huge mystery in my head. Her car was still there when I left the pool an hour later, and I think I was probably watching the exit from the women's locker room most of the rest of my time there that day. I know I had lost interest in whatever chasing game my friends were playing when I saw her. I really wanted to know why she came dressed like that. Then, that night, and many nights since then, that woman showed up in my dreams, always dressed the same, but in some dreams, she just sat in the front entry area talking to her friends. In others, she was simply picking something up that she had left in a locker. But in my favorites, she was there to swim, exactly as she was dressed, heels and all. Sometimes she'd come out of the locker room already soaked from the showers. Other times, she'd come out dry and either wade in from the shallow end, dive off the diving board, or do a running cannonball splash into the water. Unlike most women who find themselves wet while wearing clothes, especially nice ones, she was always happy, smiling, and having the time of her life.

I think the fact that I never did see why she was there is the main reason I even realized I like wetlook. My mind took this image of a beautiful woman who no one in a million years would expect to show up at a pool dressed like she was, and ran with it, creating dreams and pictures in my head of what might have happened. That day at the pool, for reasons unknown to me at the time, I desperately wanted to see her in the water, fully dressed, and ever since then, wet formalwear has been my fetish.

So...that's my story of how I learned of my wetlook fetish. Now...for the other three:

I'm also quite smart. Not nearly as smart as I used to be, though. I've had eight concussions. I'm actually a pretty slow thinker now, unfortunately. But I'm still very intelligent, creative, and can figure out things that most people around me don't understand. I definitely agree about the mind getting creative to stave off boredom. I work a pretty mundane job for long hours, and often find myself daydreaming or thinking about all kinds of things to keep me from getting too bored.

I have very little experience with the third point. Well...actually, I've got a lot of experience getting wet while wearing clothes. It just doesn't interest me. However, unlike most people outside our little community, I don't understand why they find wet clothing to be so uncomfortable. I don't particularly like being wet for no reason, but if what I'm doing somehow results in me getting wet, I'm not gonna freak out, and I don't feel the need to complain about discomfort. I don't mind being or getting wet in clothes, it just doesn't interest me. My interest is entirely in the woman or women getting wet.

Your fourth point is the one I've used to try to explain it to former girlfriends: I like having something left to my imagination. I'd much rather see her swimming in her jeans than skinnydipping.

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What causes the WAM fetish?

By RoscoeBC - Sun 06/07/14 08:10:14 GMT

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I'm still trying to figure out the reason a woman in wet clothes turns me on more than a naked one. I've been that way as long as I can remember, as a boy I liked a picture of a girl in a wet short skirt and a wet blouse going sheer a lot more than the center spread of a Penthouse with everything on display. I'm trying to get my wife to understand. It seems she would be more comfortable if I wanted her to just strip naked.

I can think of four things that may be factors in my childhood. Do these sound familiar to anyone?

First, my dad seemed to be pretty hung up about sex. Never got romantic with mom in front of the kids. If there weren't two kids around for proof, I never would have believed they got it on. It was never discussed. I get the feeling that I got the message that girls getting naked, or me looking at them, was bad. Good people didn't do that. But a girl getting wet, with her clothes going clingy and sheer was great. She didn't get naked.

Second factor. Not bragging, just throwing it out there. I've got an unusually high IQ. I belong to Mensa. I have to wonder if brighter people have more fetishes. Maybe it's the mind getting creative to stave off boredom?

Third. Maybe my earliest memory (really, really early) is of my mom plopping my sister and I in the tub to give us a bath. I specifically remember that I had a shirt on in the water and found something curious about that. I suspect my mom thought a boy and a girl shouldn't be naked in the tub together. I wonder if the act of soaping me up and rinsing me was arousing, and the association stuck. I like getting myself wet almost as much as getting a girl wet.

Fourth, maybe I just like to have a little challenge, have to work for it a little, have a little left to wonder about. But the urge seems too strong to just be that.

Am I ringing any bells with anyone?

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