Wetlook World Forum

It is true that every wetlook fan has their own taste in style of clothing and fabric, and method of getting there.  To some, getting wet, maybe slowly, is a turn on.  For some, being wet is the turn on.  For some, it should be a deliberate act, for some, accidental, like falling in the pool or getting caught in the rain.  You may find that it depends on his mood.  It does for me, I don't always want the same thing.  Don't assume that he'd like to come home and find you already in the tub or shower, he may feel like you left him out of the most important part.  I would.  His biggest turn on may be to pull you in, hose you down slowly, or pour water over you and watch your clothes go transparent and clingy.  He may want to also be dressed, or maybe not.  He may want to take the lead, or have you take the lead.  My most memorable experiences were when it wasn't my idea :).

Personally, I get a big charge out of the wife and I going to a resale shop and exploring for an outfit.  Personally, I like dressy, suits, evening gowns or party dresses, silk and satin.  Shoes are important for me, but not everyone.  The more the clothes change when they get wet, the better.  My biggest fantasy is for the wife to lead me into a fountain, pool or lake after a dressy dinner or wedding reception, or show up at the side of the pool dressed in a fitted suit, silk blouse, sexy lingerie, stockings and heels, jewelry, make-up and hair done, no shortcuts, with a scotch on the rocks, and slowly walk right into the pool while looking me right in the eye, to bring it to me.  Those are still on the sexual bucket list.

I think the best approach would be to ask him about his favorite fantasy, wetlook movie clip, or links to his favorite pictures, and then expect what he wants on any given day to vary.  Finding what he wants most will be a moving target.

For me, the most important thing is that she is willing to put some effort into doing what turns me on, even though she doesn't understand it.  That reinforces a relationship.  It's like buying a girl flowers.  We don't get that.