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Subject: Re:Her clothes wet, yours, who's idea?

Date: Sun 01/01/12 02:51:52 GMT

Name: James_M

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By RoscoeBC - Sun 01/01/12 01:56:26 GMT

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I think those vids linked to a few posts down are great, and bring up a question I don't feel has been discussed enough:

I'm assuming we want to see our girl in wet clothes, or we wouldn't be reading this...

Is it more important, less important, or the same that you are getting wet in your clothes too?

Does it matter who started it?  Was it her idea or yours?

I'll go first.  My ideal fantasy, we are dressed up for some function, or at work.  She gets playful and starts to get me wet (or wammed), in a suit or tux, knowing that the result will be that she will get drenched (or wammed) also, in an evening gown, business suit, or hot clubbing wear.  Maybe she even picked her outfit for the effect when wet.  She wants to get me randy bad enough that it's worth it to her to soak her outfit.  

In my case, if she's dressed and I'm not, it's not as hot, but still good.  If I'm dressed and she's not, it's just awkward and stupid.

If we're both dressed, and I start the wetting and get soaked in the process, or she gets aggressive after I start, and soaks me, that's pretty good too.  Maybe not as good, but this depends on my mood and varies.

For me, if she's not into it, it's a total turn-off.  I think for some it's a dominance, humiliation, or sadism thing.  For me it's not, unless it's maybe wanting to be dominated or humiliated myself, but I don't think so, because she has to get equally trashed, not just me.  

For me, I find wetting in public (myself) distressing.  Even if it was a situation where non-wetlookers might get wet fully clothed, I'd feel I was having sex in public because I find it erotic.  I guess I'm not an exhibitionist.  I was at a party once, on a hot night, where a few regular people jumped in a pool clothed.  I didn't, because I didn't want to take the risk of getting more excited than everyone else.  If I was with a group of like minded people, it might have been different.  If my significant other jumped in first, with the intent of turning me on, it would have been very different.

Here's a theory that comes from my history.  As a kid, I got the message from my parents that getting naked and enjoying it was dirty.  If a girl got naked for you, she was a slut.  But if she got wet and her clothes got clingy and transparent, as well as mine, hey, nothing in the rules against that.  Does that sound familiar to anyone?

I also always enjoyed rebelling and breaking non-dangerous rules.  Getting my clothes wet was a good example.  The better dressed, the more "bad" it was, the more fun it was.

Maybe I'm on the fringe, but I really liked those videos a few posts ago because the guy was getting his good clothes soaked too.  I'm not gay, I'm not getting a kick out of looking at a wet guy, but I'm enjoying imagining it's me.  Eric Elsas has done some good stuff around that with Wet Clothes Couples too.  What I find disappointing is stuff like Allwam, where the girls get their clothes trashed, but the guys almost never do.  If there is a guy in the scene, I want to imagine it's me, getting just as trashed as the girl.

Sound familiar anyone?