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...cos I can point to many examples where people have no problems achieving orgasm without having any fetish thoughts in their mind beforehand....e.g. I am pretty sure that drunken college kids at Spring Break do not need to have any fetish thoughts in their heads in order to achieve orgasm -- all they need is a party atmosphere and some alcohol or drugs, and millions of guys are loaded with enough testosterone and their cave-man instints are all they need in order to have sex....they do not need to have fetish fantasies in their heads.....just their own primal instincts.

I am no Doctor but the dictionary definition of a fetishist is a person who "worships an object" and is UNABLE to achieve orgasm unless he/she is worshipping that object....so that pretty clearly defines the difference between a fetishist and a non fetishist...i.e.

- non fetishists are the vast majority of people who can achieve orgasm via their own testostorone or via their own primal instincts...aided with such things as alcohol and foreplay.....but no fetish fantasies are required.

- Fetishists are people who can ONLY achieve orgasm when they are engaging in the worship of their preferred object (fetish subject matter)

- a "Hobbyist"...as far as wetlook fans are concerned....is a person who can achieve orgasm without the need for wetlook foreplay or fantasies, but can also enjoy some wetlook fun at times too....i.e. a take it or leave it person

I have never seen any stats on this, but my guess is that at least 90% of humans are non fetishists and can have sex using their own primal instincts and without any need for special fantasies...and fetishists are no more then 10% of the population.

My guess is that that obviously 100% of the people on this forum are fetishists....but probably about 50% of them are just "wetlook hobbyists" (they can have traditional sex without any need for wetlook foreplay too)....and the other 50% on this forum are hardcore wetlook fetishists (i.e. they cannot achiveve orgasm without having wetlook fantasies or foreplay being involved).

As I said...I am not a doctor...and so my assessments are purely based on my 30 years of talking to many thousands of wetlook fans by email....and their feedback.....

Over to AnthonyX and others who will surely have some views on this too.

MK