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Subject: Re:Is too much wetlook a bad thing

Date: Tue 15/12/09 23:34:06 GMT

Name: Doc Foster

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I think I've been there. Forgive me if my case does not parallel your own, but a cautionary tale follows. In the early stages of a relationship the biggest thrill for me is the thought that one day my new partner will love me so much that she will do that kind of stuff in public. The path to that point is so long and full of pitfalls and must be so carefully trodden that along the way we may (especially those like me with low self esteem in front of the opposite sex) imagine that in the event it ever happens we have achieved the virtually impossible. Then the negative thoughts start. Groucho Marx famously (and very approximately) said that he would never join a golf club that would accept him as a member. Once your partner getting wet in public seemed like an unachievable dream. But eventually a fortunate few may actually reach that point. In my case a heady cocktail of low self esteem, greed and blind stupidity kicked in around then and my subconcious (in retrospect) seemed to ponder "Hey, if she's willing to do that for someone as undesirable as me, she herself cannot be as desirable as I once thought. Perhaps I should aim a bit higher."

In my case after moving on to other choices in life-partner I eventually ended up with the one that it was *absolutely* impossible to get on the wet bandwagon. I got stuck in that particular rut as it were, and a combination of love and a dogged determination to achieve the impossible has kept me there ever since. I hope she's not reading this either - or I'll never get there. ;-)

Or, perhaps, like you say - you're just getting too much wetlook. Limit yourself to one session a month when your partner's just come on. Make sure you go out of your way to attend to her particular needs at other times. Starve yourself of wetlook. Eat plenty of fruit and veg, and drink at least two litres of water a day. You may well enjoy it much more that way. If you do - let me know - it's the only way I'll ever find out. And remember shares can go up as well as down.

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Is too much wetlook a bad thing

By Brian (Wales) - Tue 15/12/09 17:06:13 GMT

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I have recently come back from a wet holiday in the Maldives. The weather was, surprisingly not very sunny and on the fourth rainy day I asked my wife what she fancied doing. She surprised me by saying she fancied going snorkeling with a difference. We were going in wearing our clotheswhich in her case was jeans and polo shirt. It is usually me who has to coax her into a fully clothed swim but this was the first time she had suggested it. We went down to the beach a bit later and although it was still raining slightly the air temperature was very warm as was the fabulous clear sea. There were a few people near the bar and walking along the beach. For once she was not the least reticent and got her mask and snorkel on and the sat down in the water at the edge of the sea to put her flippers on. She then lay forward and swam off to the house reef. We stayed in there for about half and hour around the reef and then got out. We went to the bar and had few drinks. She had obviously enjoyed it all and the glances she got from others at the bar pleased me because she looked fabulous in her dripping clothes. She enjoyed it so much that we went swimming in our clothes a few more times and it seems that after three years I have finally converted her.

When I ran the big bath in the villa and lit the candles, floated the petals on the water - she amazed me by getting into the water wearing her ex-best dress. I think she would rather swim in her clothes than bothering with swimwear now.

The trouble that I alluded to earlier is that the buzz I used to get swimming in my clothes or when I occasionally pushed her into the sea or pool, or when watching others swim in clothes is starting to diminish a bit. I just want it to be like it was, when the slightest sniff of wetlook got me aroused.

I used to think it was the advent of YOUTUBE wetlook that was dimming my sensations but now the answer might be revealed a bit closer to home.

Any views on this?

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