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Message # 41808.7.1

Subject: Re:Update

Date: Wed 04/11/09 08:42:07 GMT

Name: Wetfrog

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I once walked into a party and saw the sexy girl whose party it was, wearing tight jeans and sitting on her boyfriend's lap. He had a glass full of water in his hand which he was very slowly and deliberately pouring directly into the crotch of her tight jeans. I think he even refilled it from a jug on the table beside him and continued getting the crotch of her jeans even more wet! She just let him do it for several minutes and didn't object or move away. it was not long before she got up and led him upstairs to her bedroom, where they had sex and returned to the party 10 or 15 minutes later. (On another occasion the same girl had come home from a day out in the country with her jeans completely wet, so she was clearly not the sort who minded wet clothes).

On another occasion I had had a bit to drink and was alone with a good female friend of mine. I was wearing very tight jeans which made me feel quite aroused. I found myself pouring an entire jug of water down the inside front of my jeans while explaining how I liked wet clothes. This both excited and amused her and led to openness and honesty about my sexual likes and dislikes and some very wet sex!

These are just a couple of suggestions for how you could try to incorporate water play and fun into what you would normally be doing with her. But be yourself and do what comes naturally. Of course if she doesn't like it you just have to stop doing it.

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Update

By Amf - ilove2getsoaked@yahoo.com Sun 01/11/09 23:47:09 GMT

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Thanks for all your thoughtful responses. I've always admired how supportive and encouraging this community is.

A couple reactions, and then let me share what happened today. First, everyone says not to make it a big deal, but it is a big deal to me. It's how I like sex. It's my biggest turn on and has been since my first climax at age 13 or 14, in a pair of tight wet jeans. Of course that is not the only thing I like in life or in a woman. But I don't think I could be with someone who wasn't open-minded enough sexually to accept and even take part in what I like. I just can't imagine years of either hiding, enduring judgment, or worse, indifference to what I like so much. I don't think I could be with someone who wasn't also into film, music, peace and justice, the outdoors, etc. either. Wetlook is not the only thing that matters, sure, but it matters.

And I have to disagree with "Wondering" that it's not love if I am thinking so much about how to tell this woman about wetlook. I love her so much, more than I've felt in 20 years, and I was happily married for a long time, so I know what love is, what it feels like, and how to keep it going. But the truth is, I AM different from other people, and I don't want to scare this woman away. Don't you all feel that way? There is this tiny slice of the internet for people who like wetlook and a million times more sites devoted to sex and nudity. There are porn video stores and strip clubs in nearly every town for all the people who love nudity and sex, and a hundred times more people whose main interest is nudity and sex but who just don't consume porn. Compare that to the number of people who love wetlook (I've never met another one face to face--that I know of anyway-- in my life which makes me feel something like a gay kid in a tiny town in a rural state.) It's hard to be such a minority sometimes. The fact that is such an unusual, uncommon interest (how many times have you been to the beach and seen 1000 people in bathing suits and not one single person swimming in clothes?) makes it a little hard to admit to, if you care a lot (as I do) how someone feels about you.

On the other hand, it's just fun, and harmless, and lots of other people believe the credo that if it feels good, do it. So I came out more today, with good results.

We were sitting in the sun, kissing. She made some comment about the jeans she was wearing, and I told her that I think jeans are the sexiest thing in the world, sexier than racy lingerie or anything. She laughed. Then later we were making out and I told her how I like making out fully clothed, or with clothes half on, half off. I said it felt sneaky, and she laughed. Then I asked her if she could tell from the email I sent her that I like wet clothes. She said, "What?" and sounded a little surprised or confused. I said, "You know, getting soaking wet, like all those couples kissing in the rain." She smiled and said, "Yeah, I got that." I said, "Well that's my big secret. I like wet clothes." She laughed, kissed me, and said my secret was fine.

So much for the big scary confession, huh? Yeah, I know it's stupid to get worked up about this, but love will do that to you. I mean, I worry about every little thing--will she think my house is too messy? Will she like my band? If she doesn't, will she still like me? Do I call her too much? Or not enough? Love makes you crazy like that. It has been feeling so good that I don't want ANYTHING to mess it up. But I'm just going to operate with openness and love and trust and fun. I'm pretty sure that will make everything work out okay.

Thanks for listening again. I'll keep you posted.

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Another "How do I tell my lover?" question

By Amf - ilove2getsoaked@yahoo.com Sat 31/10/09 20:54:02 GMT

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Hi all. I've read this forum for a long time, and have always encouraged people to be out and open about their interests. I still believe that's the best policy . . . but now I'm faced with the situation myself, and I'm having a surprisingly hard time with it.

I'm a smart, educated, successful, creative, kind, socially adjusted, and cute (so I've been told) guy with lots of friends and a great career, who loves the rush and sensation and look of soaking wet clothes, especially tight jeans and long sleeved shirts. I love getting wet, seeing women get wet, and most of all, getting wet together. I love it more than nudity or regular sex.

So I've been seeing a woman for a month now. It's been fantastic. She very smart, fun, affectionate, together, and super cute. She's crazy about me. But I’m having trouble telling her about my kink.

I agree with the advice posted before about trying to keep it casual, just mention that wet clothes is a turn on and don't make a big deal about it. I did that already. I mentioned how I love getting soaked in the rain, and I sent her the "Kiss the Rain" video of all the soaked couples kissing. Here’s what I wrote to her in that email:

I like the images of lovers kissing, not caring or even noticing the rain, getting soaked to the skin and just being in complete abandon to the love they feel. I love the rain, as I said, and getting completely soaked in all my clothes (not just in the rain, but also in fountains, lakes, whatever), a crazy thrill I've enjoyed all my life. I find it so exhilarating and erotic. So I see me and you in these images, and even in the words of the song.

That’s pretty up front, no? She thought the email was sweet, but still didn't seem to pick up on how MUCH I liked it. I know I have to just come out with it. But it wouldn't be true for me to tell her that it is only a casual interest. It is my biggest turn-on! I don't think I could be with someone who didn't accept and like it (because for me, nothing sexual is enjoyable unless both people are into it to the same degree).

I'm so into her that the stakes seem really high. I REALLY don't want to lose this one! I just wish I was into regular old sex in bed like everyone else in the world! On the other hand, I love what I love and that can't be helped. And my kink is harmless, healthy, and fun, so nothing to be ashamed of. I want her to accept me, all of me.

There are encouraging signs . . . she's madly in love with me. I love the way she dresses (in tight jeans and stretchy shirts that show off her lovely lean body—I’d love to see her wet in every outfit I’ve ever seen her in!) She told me that she’s happy that I like her clothes, espcially her jeans, because she has so many. She likes that I have a lot of clothes too (ha ha--I wonder why? The more the merrier!) Once when we were going out, I put on a pair of skinny jeans that fit me perfectly, but maybe too tightly. I asked her if jeans like that were appropriate for a man to be wearing. She just giggled and said, "Well *I* like it." It made me wonder how she would like it if those jeans were soaking wet and stuck to me all over.

If she was into getting wet with me, it would help me relax, and it would increase my interest in and enjoyment of other kinds of sex. Right now, that's hard for me because I feel like I'm holding back or keeping secrets. I want to be like the rest of you happy wet couples who post here, like Vlock and his partner, like Leon and Lisa Moomin, like TJ in wet jeans, KDWET, UFA, etc.

I've been with other women where I just figured, oh well, if she doesn't like it, no big deal, I'll just move on. There seemed little risk (and of course, no woman has ever freaked about it anyway). But this one is a keeper, a girl I could spend the rest of my life with. I see this kink of mine as the only thing that could screw that up. Can you appreciate the stakes involved? Can you see why it's hard for me to broach the subject?

I'd appreciate any advice and/or encouragement you could give me. Success stories are especially welcome.

Amf

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