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Subject: Re: wetlook - blessing or curse ?

Date: Wed 03/06/09 06:32:50 GMT

Name: bryce (aka brad)

Email: bradandsammie@mac.com

Website: http://web.mac.com/bradandsammie/Sammie_and_Brads_Place/home.html

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I can understand how you feel, and went through a similar emotional conflict years ago. I am certain that my love of WAM (or more specifically, the true fetish nature of WAM in my life) made relationships difficult, sex impossible, and having a meaningful connection to people strained because of this big secret I was hiding. By my late teens I was manic-depressive (which may have happened anyway, but the fetish made it far more pronounced since it caused many other problems... and oddly provided one of the few pleasures I can remember during that time in my life.)

When I finally came out it was incredibly liberating. I was 23 at the time. The following year, when I found out I was not alone nor unique vie the internet, I actually became depressed for a time. But this community kicks ass and people supported each other through that weird transition. Really, the breakthrough was when I met my wife, told her early on in the relationship, and she didn't mind at all (as you may know.) I taught her about WAM and she taught me how to enjoy regular-type sex.

It's completely possible to have a "normal" family and life while enjoying wetlook. I don't know what's perverted about wanting to see women doing something you find attractive (imagine going to the beach to see bikini-clad women and gawking at them all day) and there's certainly nothing wrong with being weird.

"I avoid going to a beach with my girlfriend, because I fear that I might spot wetlook."

Perhaps you need to have this discussion with your girlfriend so she can understand how you feel. I'm not sure if she knows or supports you in this. But wetlook is not something to be feared. I would recommend therapy only for gaining an understanding of how to respond to your unusual kinks, not for trying to change the very nature of who you are.

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wetlook - blessing or curse ?

By Robbi - Wed 03/06/09 00:36:14 GMT

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Yesterday I came home a little earlier than my girlfriend. So I decided to go to the lake I used to go before I knew her. Just when I arrived I saw two persons standing on the little island and they were definitively clothed. As I walked on I saw them swimming back to the little shore. It was two girls and they stepped out right infront of me. One wore khaki (a bit see through) pants and a blue shirt and the other one wore skin tight jeans and a red shirt.

It was so exciting! But I feel a bit depressed as I obviously have this desire to whatch random girls swimming clothed. There is still this deamon in my mind and I would like so much to get rid of it.

I avoid going to a beach with my girlfriend, because I fear that I might spot wetlook. I wonder if I was able to keep my eyes off. I don't know, so I better dont't go.

When I was a single, wetlook was my blessing - now it became my curse.

On the other hand, I want to live a normal life. With a wife and a family. And not spending my time any longer waiting for spotting random wetlook and hang out at the lake like a perverted weirdo.

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