Wetlook World Forum

"...I ended up disliking sex/nudity..."

This is confusing. Let's say we leave out the matter of nudity for a moment.

If you're into wetlook, just exactly what does it do for you? The right sort of wetlook makes me horny. What I choose to do about it is...well...what I choose to do in order to achieve a sexual release. Are you saying that you developed a dislike for sexual release, or the situation of being intimate with a girl (I assume you enjoy pictures of wet girls)? I'm not afraid to declare the fact that I was *very* shy around girls (and anything related to sex) when I went through puberty, and for a good many years afterwards. That made it difficult for me to pursue relationships. It was always something I wanted - perhaps so much it was emotionally overwhelming. When I wanted to approach a girl, I was always intimidated. It was certainly not dislike. When I finally found myself in a relationship, and things got sexual, the challenge was to overcome shyness and intimidation, and a sense of how strange the situation seemed - nice, but uncomfortably "foreign". It's something you get used to very quickly and instead of being "weirded out" by the situation, it becomes very natural and desirable.

When I look at images of nude women and images of wetlook, I must admit that I find the wetlook pictures more stimulating... to the point that nudity, while very pleasant, doesn't necessarily turn me on, no matter how beautiful the woman. On the other hand, a real live nude woman in the bedroom, even if somewhat plain-looking is going to be much more of a turn-on than any wetlook picture. Are you saying that this is not the case for you, or that you have yet to be in the company of a naked girl? Are you comfortable with your own sexuality?

I have my doubts that wetlook is to blame for your problems. I think the real issue is/was elsewhere. Furthermore, if you approach it the right way, you can always integrate wetlook into a healthy sex life. I think it first requires a healthy attitude towards sex. I do not believe you need to break your affinity for wetlook to do it.