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Subject: Hello Re: Wetlook or Sex? A comparison . . .

Date: Tue 21/04/09 13:42:27 GMT

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In reply to Message (39843) Hello Wetlook or Sex? A comparison . . .

By Amf - ilove2getsoaked@yahoo.com us Tue 21/04/09 04:29:44 GMT

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Hi all.  I was wondering how many of you prefer wetlook to sex.  Or rather, how many of you prefer wet clothes (either watching or doing) to old fashioned, naked sexual intercourse in bed?  Of course, it's possible to like both, maybe even in equal amounts.  But still, I've been thinking about this a lot.  I decided to make a list of the pros and cons of each.  Here goes:  

 

 

SEX:  

 

Pros:  

 

--Our bodies were designed for it; intercourse is enacting an ancient biological impulse that lets share in an experience that homo sapiens have had in ever culture in the world all the way back to Paleolithic times.  There's something cool about that.  

 

--It can be, under ideal circumstances, a tremendous act of love and trust and joy between two people.  Or more than two people, depending on your persuasion.  

 

--It's ubiquitous.  People everywhere have sexual intercourse regularly, know what it is, expect it, think it's normal (if not always socially acceptable, depending on the situation and cultural norms)

 

--It is useful for making babies, which is important or where would we all be?  

 

Cons:  

 

--It can result in babies when people don't want babies, which results in all sorts of problems like abortion, poverty, child abuse, overpopulation, shotgun weddings, deadbeat dads, etc. etc.

 

--It can spread diseases.  You can catch AIDS, Chlamydia, Syphilis, Herpes, Gonorrhea, HPV, and more, unless you are vigilant about using condoms, which can interfere with spontaneity, and are not 100% foolproof.  

 

--There are issues like performance anxiety in men, frigidity in women, fear of eternal damnation and societal stigmas.   

 

--While a lot of variety is possible, after a while, there are only so many ways two people can "do it."  And if most people do it in bed, naked, there's a risk of monotony, particularly for long-term, monogamous couples.

 

--It can be expensive.  Kids, spouses, STDS, prostitutes, strip clubs, porn--all those things can cost a lot of money.  

 

--It can lead to painful emotions: heartbreak, betrayal, abandonment, feeling used, ashamed, etc.  

 

 

WETLOOK:  

 

Pros:  

 

--Less risk of disease.  You might possibly get cooties in some swamp, or swimmer's ear, but other than that, the risks are nearly non-existent.  You could conceivably drown while swimming fully clothed, but if you do it frequently, you probably get used to it and become a stronger swimmer.  It seems so normal to me to swim in jeans and a long sleeve dress shirt, even perhaps a sweater.  It no longer even seems difficult.  

 

--The opportunities abound:  You can get wet in your bathtub, showers, in the rain, in lakes, pools, oceans, fountains, hot tubs, creeks, rivers, ponds, horse troughs.  75% of the earth is covered in water.  A wetlook fetish is, therefore, a convenient thing.

 

--It's free.  Or it can be.  You can get wet in rain, in the bath, in lakes, on the beach, all for no money.  You might possibly ruin clothes (but really, haven't you found out that clothes are pretty durable after all?  Even fancy clothes and shoes?  I've never seen any garment that was ruined after only ONE soaking.  Most are good for dozens of fun wet times.  You can spend money on wetlook sites and videos, and maybe even prostitutes, but you have to admit, being turned on by water is pretty convenient.  

 

--Variety.  You can get wet in all kinds of clothes, in all kinds of situations.  All are different.  Wet jeans are very different from wet dress clothes.  A woman in tight wet jeans looks and feels very different from a woman in a classy white dress with hosiery and sexy undergarments.   Getting wet outside in a public fountain or beach fully clothed feels very different from getting wet in your bathroom.  Wetlook is something that you can do wherever you go, on vacation, in a hotel, while camping or hiking or biking.  Which leads me to . . .

 

--Interaction with the natural world.  I don't know about you, but my love for getting wet leads me to spend more time in more places outdoors than I would otherwise.  I like to hike and kayak and walk in the park, but in our busy world, it is often hard to make the time for these things.  When you love wetlook, it's easy to make time.  I have found so many lakes, creeks, ponds, and experienced the thrill of walking in the rain until I was completely soaked to the skin, all because of my wetlook fetish.  Sometimes I feel pity for all the people who have never truly experienced a rainstorm or a waterfall or a fountain.  As Sir Paul McCartney said, "You've never felt the rain my friend, 'til you've felt it running down your back."  (From "Mamunia" on the "Band on the Run" album).

 

--It keeps you young.  Okay, so does sex, perhaps, but there's a gleeful joy about jumping into a lake or fountain fully clothed that can only be described as child-like.  Most adults deny themselves this sort of fun.  Just look at any public fountain designed for people to play in.  Kids don't hesitate, but almost all grown ups deny themselves.  Why?  Kids might not get cold as easily as grownups, but that's certainly not all of it.  Grown ups are just tremendously repressed.  Even on a blazing hot day where the fountain would feel absolutely wonderful, most adults won't do it.  The ones who do are clearly the more free-spirited, youthful ones, no matter what their age.  

 

--It's legal.  Sure, lots of pools don't allow clothed swimming, but it is much more legal than sexual intercourse or skinny dipping.  There's nothing profane about someone fully clothed getting wet in a fountain.  And this separates us from pedophiles, rapists, even adulterers or sodomites in many places.  It is a very G-rated kink.  

 

--It's harmless.  We don't prey upon anyone, or take pleasure in causing anyone else harm, physically or emotionally.  

 

--It's an exquisite, full body experience.  Sure, sex can be also, but often, sex is focused on just one or two areas of the body.  Slipping fully clothed into a pool or hot tub and climbing out, soaked to the skin and dripping water, clothes stuck to you all over--that is an amazing, full-body rush.  And making out in the shower, say, with a handheld shower head, in jeans, shirts, slinky dresses, nylons, socks, shoes, whatever turns you on, allows you and your partner all sorts of opportunities for stimulation all over.  

 

CONS:  

 

--It's so rare that it can be lonely.  How many wet fetishists have come here and expressed amazement that there is ANYONE else like themselves?  And it is so rare that it can be very hard to find other people into it.  It's probably easier to find people into BDSM, gay sex, anal, all kinds of other alternative sex practices.  It might not be hard to find places where you can see people getting wet with their clothes on, and while lots of people find it exhilarating to get wet, for most of those people, it is not a sexual thrill.  I told one woman who I was seeing about my sexual fetish for wet clothes, and she said, "How is that sexual?"  I've mentioned to other women that I like swimming fully clothed, only to have them respond that they prefer swimming completely nude.  I've had many lovely wetlook adventures with women, from G-rated to X-rated, but I've yet to actually meet, face to face, a woman who already liked getting wet in her clothes.  Maybe people just need initiation before they can appreciate it, but still, it's a rare, and therefore lonely kink.  

 

--It can be alienating.  Almost any person you're likely to meet is into regular old sex.  Almost none of them will be into getting wet fully clothed on purpose.  Wetlook can, potentially, make someone less interested regular sex.  I don't initiate sexual contact as often as I might if I knew that almost everyone else out there shared the same interests as me.  Now if most people were into wetlook, I think I'd be much more open and aggressive in seeking prospective partners.  

 

--It can be embarrassing.  How do you explain to someone you know who "catches" you soaking wet?  I don't mind strangers seeing me wet, but it's different with people I know.  I'm getting more and more open, but still, to be the only fully clothed person at the beach, surrounded by hundreds of people in swimsuits--that can make one feel a little awkward.  

 

--It can lead to lawbreaking: jumping in fountains (I was stopped by the police once for that), sneaking into pools (I've done that), swimming in places that don't allow swimming, or just swimming in "improper attire" at a pool or hot tub--all those things can lead to uncomfortable run-ins with authority.  Pretty tame in the scheme of things, but still, an inconvenience.  

 

--It can put one in dangerous situations.  I've walked around in lightning storms so I could get good and wet, where normally I'd have stayed inside where it was safe.  I've gone to some creepy places late at night, swam in situations where it was a little dangerous, especially fully clothed.  One could risk hypothermia (what if you got locked out of your car on a cold day, soaking wet?)

 

--It can be addictive.  But then again, so can regular sex, ice cream, drugs, driving too fast, or anything else that's fun.  

 

Well folks, that's it for my comparison.  I'm very curious to hear what you all think.  How many of you find yourself more interested in wetlook than "regular" sex?  Is that a problem for any of you?  How many of you wish you didn't have the wetlook kink and were more like everyone else?  How many of you are proud of it and see it as completely beneficial?  What other pros and cons can you think of?  This is a discussion I've wanted to have for some time.  Please join in.  

 

 


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