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Message # 30622.2 Subject: Re: Feedback to below posts: wet prude = sex prude? Date: Tue 31/07/07 00:34:20 GMT Name: wetwhiteandblue |
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If you were to take wetlook out of the equation, how is your wife otherwise? Is she loving? Caring? Kind? Great in the kitchen? Good mother? Is she there when you need her? Is she a good listener? Are YOU a good listener? Is there compromise between you and her? Is she supportive? Is communication a main force in your marriage? I could go on and on. You get the picture where I'm going.
If you're centering your marriage around your fetish of "wetlook", then you are the problem in the marriage, not her! The chances of finding a mate who is willing to go along with your wetlook fetish is about slim to none. In reality it's a fantasy. If you noticed the few websites featured in this forum that involves married couples interested in wetlook, you could probably count them on one hand. Consider this: Wetlook is mostly a man's fetish, not a woman's. Can you name me one wetlook forum anywhere where the majority of contributors are female talking male wetlook? Realistically, it's male seeing wet women or male seeking male wetlook.
I suggest keeping your fetish confined to yourself and focusing on the other good qualilties your wife has to offer. For you to be married for over 20 years, there has to be some positive element for your marital longitivity, otherwise you two would have been seperated long ago.
Enjoy your fetish my friend, but love your wife! You're luckier that most. |
In reply to Message (30622) Feedback to below posts: wet prude = sex prude?
By Wet Guy - Mon 30/07/07 23:56:26 GMT Guys - I've been married over 20 years. My experience has been that my wife thinks wet look is some kind of wierd thing and therefore does not do it unless I force it on her (in a nice way ... not some kind of abuse). The same is true for any kind of fun fetish sex play - stockings, sexy lingerie, etc. For her, nude in the missionary position is as good as it gets, and that once a week if I am lucky.
I have such a bigger sex drive than her. My guess is that the same ladies who turn up their nose at getting wet turn up their nose and make you feel like a preditory fool for other types of very benign fetishes. I have been disappointed my whole life with this important aspect of my marriage, and I am about to throw in the towel.
Would you guys agree with me? Some women just love sex and play and most forms of playful fetishes, and the others turn off to anything other than the basics. that's my experience.
To you younger guys or anyone that is not married, I would never go into it again (marriage that is) without knowing my future wife's feelings and reactions to these. If she's a prude, let it go. You will be miserable forever, and just satisfying yourself on the net. Sad but true.
Wet Guy
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