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Message # 23859.4.1.1

Subject: Re: Re: Re: Ya know....it just amazes me...

Date: Thu 27/07/06 00:55:31 GMT

Name: David Faltskog

Email: davidfaltskog@yahoo.co.uk

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By joey - Wed 26/07/06 20:04:03 GMT

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MK: thanks for a free-view section on wamtech-gold

I just spent an hour going over all the pics.

WIR: thanks for all you do. I know all producers

put a lot of time and effort into your sites.

AnthonyX Thanks for all the pics and beautiful ladies.

Also Rod and Elizabeth and Todd and Jen

Thanks for letting us see your beautiful wives

soaked.

By AnthonyX - anthonyx@jowc.net Wed 26/07/06 19:16:31 GMT

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Best advice is something you've likely already heard: don't take it personally, and don't assume that lack of positive feedback equates to lack of interest/appreciation.

Perhaps it is human nature to be a bit self-centered, especially when the context is so closely tied to gratification - as in surfing the net for erotic pictures. When we find what we like, we quietly enjoy it; when we find nothing, we get frustrated; when we expect to find something enjoyable but instead find something offensive, we get pissed off. When we get pissed off we're most likely to complain.

So... probably safe to assume ratios something like this:

Bottom line: the more bent out of shape we are about something, the more likely we will MAKE time to complain. The more satisfied we are, the less likely we will look for time to express our gratitude.

One final point: I think a lot of those posts you referred to are simply reminders or announcements of content updates to established sites or "product lines". The pattern I've seen is that the announcement of a new site launch or "product line" e.g. leon's "street splash" always attracts some amount of feedback because there is something novel about it. A new photoset or video of an established photographer/videographer/model which continues an established style often generates little to no feedback perhaps because there is little one can say beyond "nice update", "keep up the good work", etc. which all starts to sound repetetive and maybe even empty after a while. Not to make excuses for failing to acknowledge all the great effort, but for anyone selling their product, surely all the positive feedback they need can be measured monetarily; negative feedback helps them adjust what they are doing when something isn't selling to expectation. I would agree that it's the people who make all the free contributions who really deserve positive feedback at least once in a while.

By WETINRED - stekz@cableone.net Wed 26/07/06 15:52:45 GMT

Website: http://www.wetinred.com