Wetlook World Forum

For me, wet clothes tend more to represent sexiness, both how I view women, and how I view myself. Part of me still thinks that swimming in clothes is just stupid but it makes all the girls look really sexy. But there is of course that notion of freedom and regression, of doing something you shouldn't, and not worrying about anything.

Another strange benefit, I'm quite hairy and I've never felt comfortable with that, since the very predominant view is that men must all be shaving or waxing their chests, shoulders and backs for that hairless look, so I feel very afraid that women will find me horrible and men will laugh or wince. So I would never take my shirt off anywhere I could be seen, so swimming clothed would offer me some privacy. Funny, since it's women who normally don't like to show off their bodies as much. When I was younger, I was the last person in the class to still strip naked before showering after sports lessons, as I was totally unfazed by other kids seeing my body, even when I had a good excuse to shower with my shorts on! Now it's the reverse and I never let people see my body. I used to wear sweaters in the summer (pun valid!) since I was too afraid to even let people see my bare arms but I got over that for the sake of sanity, and even wearing a t-shirt leaves me too hot. (So then, when there's no-one looking, I sometimes get it soaked to help me cool down ;) I used to sleep in soaked pajamas too to cool down on hot nights but lately I found that I just dry out in a couple of hours and wake up from overheating. Best to sleep naked).

So, yes, where were we? It's all so complicated :) Maybe I envy men who have a simpler take on it all, but even they still have little fun with it once they get married, so it seems you just can't win.