Wetlook World Forum

I grew up in a religeous household and the times I got caught wet were hell. I don't know if my parents thought I was growing up to be "gay" or what. Whilst still at home I had to be stealthy regarding wetlook, but looking back I should have stood my ground. Of all the fetishes, or should I say things that we all regard as turn ons, getting wet is a very mild, tactile, sensual and gentle thing. Grief we could be into urinating on each other or scat, bondage and beating each other up, and I thank God I'm not a paedophile! Every human on this planet is a sexual being, and every one of us has something that turns us on, something unique to the individual, to say that it should be enough to be turned on only by being with a naked sexual partner is I believe not enough. As humans we seem to be the only creatures on the planet that have sex as something that bonds and entertains us as couples. Sex is not just for procreation, it is for developing and strengthening a loving relationship too.I don't think elephants or whales do that, or primates either.

For me one of the difficult balances is getting wet with my wife who is definately not into wetlook, and I don't want to force her as that spoils the fun and erotic element for both of us. I cannot understand her reluctance to get involved with wetlook when it is so tame, though this year she has really pushed the boat out and booked us into a hotel in August for our wedding anniversary and the room has a double jacuzzi bath (can't wait for August). When we were on honeymoon (both virgins too) the fist thing I did the morning we woke up together as man and wife, was drag her into the shower with me whilst she was still wearing her negligee, heaven for me, and her I think.

I'm fast aproaching the age of 40 and it's only 3 years since I first got the internet and realised like so many others that I was not alone in my liking for wetlook. I now accept myself for what I am. I am not ashamed of my "fetish" though I don't go around shouting about it. It is a personal thing and something which is intimate to myself and my marriage. I have loved water and the feeling of wet clothes since I was 3 or 4 years old. I have always been fascinated seeing women in wet clothes and hopefully always will. I envy Todd and Jennifer and other couples who can enjoy their wet experiences together.

So enjoy your "fetish" it is one that doesn't harm or humiliate or endanger the welfare of others.