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The following week, she again brought a nice dress, and we again ended up out back. I joked with her about maybe we should go sit on the diving board, and she picked up on that right away, and responded "I dare you to throw me in the pool again." I, of course, picked her up and once again jumped in the pool.

The third week, I told her about a classic film festival in town, and how I thought it would make for a nice evening out. This time, she brought an outstanding purple silk dress, and I figured, no way is she getting that wet. Sure enough, that evening, we went out by the pool, and, this time, before I could even tease her about anything, she said "this time, I'm throwing you in the pool!" and grabbed my arm. As you can imagine, I offered no resistence, and we both jumped into the pool.

I have had dozens, maybe hundreds, of similar successes. So what have I learned over the years? You have to make it fun, and it can't be the entire focus of your time together. If the woman senses that your only interest in her is getting her wet, you've lost, because then she becomes interchangeable with any other woman. The best situation is when the two of you really care about each other -- then, you try to please the other person, not satisfy your own urges.  If the woman really cares for you, she'll find or make wet situations for the two of you. Your job is to then satisfy her needs (no, that does not always mean sex -- sometimes it just means appreciating the things she wants, complimenting her on how she looks, etc.). There are tricks you can use, and women you can pick that are more susceptible to participating in your interest, but I'll have to leave that for another post if anyone's interested.