Wetlook World Forum

I am not a pyschologist....so all I know is based on my own experience and from chatting to some 4000+ wetlook fans over the last 15 years...and to listen to their stories.

I am normal to the extent that I have one head, 2 arms and 2 legs, like most homo-sapiens...and I live a life "in suburbia" as most people do...i.e. a wife, a mortgage, 2 cars, watch tv, play sports etc. Where I differ to a mainstream human is that the normal things that turn most guys on (i.e. looking at Playboy magazine or Victoria's Secret models)...does nothing for me at all. I have my own pecadillos....and basically getting turned on by wet women is no different to a person who gets turned on by foot fetishes or bondage or whatever your fetish interest is.

Remember....until about 20 years ago....being gay was not considered normal either (and sodomy was in fact illegal in the UK until the late 1950's). The gay communities have managed to evolve themselves from being considered abnormal....into being part of the mainstream today....and thats because of sheer numbers. If there are 6 billion people on this planet.....and only approx 6000 wetlook fans.....work the math....as a percentage of mankind we are considered abnormal....because we are such a tiny percentage. But being gay is now considered to be mainstream....cos probably 10% of the planet is gay.....so the only difference between being normal and abnornal....is really a matter of numbers.

Most of the people I have met....including myself.....struggle to control their fetish interests....cos you cannot get rid of it (unless you have a lobotomy)....all you can do is control it....and try to make sure that you control your fetish...and you don't let your fetish control you and your life.

Wetlook is really no different to GAMBLING....i.e. you can have a lot of fun with it.....if you are always in control of your life, and you don't let your addiction take over your life. So that is how I live my life.....I don't let my pecadillos run my life......I live my own life with my family and a supportive spouse....and just control the beast and have some fun.

I do know lots of wetlook fans who live and breathe wetlook 24hrs per day.....and some of them are unable to function and hold down a steady job....cos they cannot get things off their mind all day long.....and thats not a good situation to be in.

So...the only advice I can give is.....make sure you are in control of the beast....and don't let the beast control you.

The dog should wag the tail....don't let the tail wag the dog.

MK