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Message # 15432.5

Subject: Re: Wetlook on the brain

Date: Thu 07/04/05 01:53:44 GMT

Name: klm4748

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Funny you should mention 'treatment'... My g/f and I had a, uh... discussion a few weeks ago and one topic that came up was hypnotism. I wondered if she'd be willing to be hypnotized to remove her aversion to wet clothing. Of course, it's therefore only fair to ask if _I_ would undergo a similar process to get rid of this fetish.

Wow, good question. It's kinda who I am, you know? I enjoy it. And without it, would I just never need it, or would I need something else?

I've likened it to addiction, too, the way it has driven me to visit all the hotels in town on weekend evenings to try to find a pool occupied by the right crowd... and sometimes to anger at Fate for there being absolutely no crowd or the crowd being not QUITE right (usually meaning 'too many guys').

And now I have no such compulsion-- simply because I live in a place where few hotels have pools, and those that do are behind a few levels of security, and anyway how would I explain my absence on a weekend evening? So being away from temptation definitely works.

On the flip side, here's this forum. I think it contributes the 'overdo' technique. I actually lose interest in the middle of some of the enormous lists that some blessed hard-workers post here (Thanks! Keep up the good work!)... unless it's been a while, and then I need a bath.... In any case, it's amazing how fast the weekend comes, when I can't visit the forum for 2 days, ouch... ;)

Okay, there's my two dollars on the subject, now my two cents: Psych help is good if something is causing depression and interfering with normal life. Marital therapy may also be called for (I've considered it myself, even though we haven't yet tied the knot) if there is discord due to wetlook. But woe to he who suggests that we're all just nuts, eh?

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Wetlook on the brain

By Russ - russ@russ.net Wed 06/04/05 16:26:09 GMT

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Have you ever felt like wetlook is on your mind nearly 24x7 and sometimes your life didn't have to ALWAYS revolve around it? Whenever you go to the beach, hotel with a pool, whenever it rains, when out in the kayak, etc, etc it seems like if you or your mate don't get wet, your day is a total loss, and so you stew and stew all day long trying to figure out what to do, and then end up very frustrated at yourself for being so much in a rut it drives you crazy?!

I went to a Psych a few weeks ago (first time in my life) because I thought it was starting to get the best of me. Sometimes I drive my wife crazy and tell her i'm going through withdrawls if she doesn't get wet soon. Anyway, the Psych says if you withdrawl from something as much as possible, it will eventually fade out of your mind and not be the #1 thing in your mind anymore and it will subside. I'm not sure if I believe it, but he wanted me to try going without for awhile and not thinking about it. I don't think it's possible. It's like an addiction. I can't just blank it out. I worry I might miss some good pics on this forum if I don't stop by every other day or so! I couldn't possibly completely blank it out of my mind. It's been on my mind ever since I can remember, and it's not going away anytime soon. I told him how it has gotten expensive sometimes - I had to have a boat, an 8 person hottub, an above ground pool, now I want a inground pool. Doc says I have a "desire disorder." Did he make this prognosis up or is there even a such thing?

Do you feel this way sometimes? That your whole life revolves around wetlook? I feel that more and more over the years. Sometimes I try to picture myself when I'm 70 or 80 years old and wonder how an old man could possibly be into wetlook. Old men aren't into wetlook, are they? :)

I also wonder how it will be if I ever have children (wife and I have been trying to for years now.) What will my child or children think? Should I bring them up to think its normal and fun? Will they eventually think their dad is a freak?

Doc put me on 150mg and then 300mg Wellbutrin. I don't think i'm depressed, but he said it'll make me feel better :) It definitely seems to do that. Didn't realize I could feel any better than I already do!

Anyway, just thought i'd vent... Interested in if I'm the only one in the world with a "desire disorder"... Dunno if I really want to cure it... Wetlook is too much fun to even think about forgetting...

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