Wetlook World Forum

That was my fear when I first told my Wife, which I did in a roundabout way by saying that seeing her in a Wet T-Shirt when swimming in strong sunlight a year ago was a big turn-on for me.  I thought my fear had been realised when she replied in a hurt tone: “Oh dear, you were turned on by the wet T-Shirt, not me!”  I was able to placate her by explaining that being turned on by wet clothing was in addition to being turned on by her, not instead of, so wet clothing would add to our sexual relationship making it more exciting.  She has accepted the idea of Wetlook without any damage to our relationship but it is clear that there is a lot she needs to some to terms with before we go down that route.  She does not mind seeing me get wet but comes up with a long list of “problems” when I suggest she does likewise.

The only useful thing I can advise to those who find their other halves reluctant over Wetlook is that persuasion can make them more resistant not less.  Instead, if you let them know how much their reluctance is hurting you emotionally, they are more likely to consider Wetlook and find some way they can enjoy doing it to take the hurt away from you.  Finally, from the relationship point of view, I think it is important to stress that you regard your love for each other as the most important thing; to stress that I have twice told my Wife that if she decides that finds Wetlook too distressing, I would be willing to seek medical treatment to end my liking for Wetlook; on both occasions she told me that she did not want me to do that and indicated she would try some Wetlook once she gets used to the idea.  There is hope yet!